Whoa, there, Sparkey!
I have put many posts on this thread regarding responsibility. Nowhere did I mention blame. Two entirely different notions.
Second, Ali, if your still reading this, please understand that drty LOVES getting a rise out of people. It's a quality I find kind of endearing, but you'll miss that part of it if you can't differentiate his (sometimes harsh) ribbing from his straight talk. I think sometimes even he gets them confused. Lastly, I'm sure you're not a stalker, but just in case you might be, PM me a photo and I'll send you my contact info.
I hope this got at least a small smile out of you. We all grieve, but we all must move on.
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