Aubs, I know you are going through a lot right now. I think the best thing to do is make stuff as simple as possible- more importantly work on making yourself happy. So where you live and relax is crucial.
Isn't there a college town around there? Maybe some older folks have rooms for rent. If you have the money- a hotel room for awhile is sweet- maid service- good TV- internet
until you find a place. Then find someplace you will be happy with- even if it is temporary. Decorate it the way you want/stuff you love and stock up on stuff you love to eat. You may want to start training and get into biking and ride with CO Hummer in that thing you all were talking about. It will give you a focus on something.