here are acouple i was looking at, im kinds skeptical that these are the ones but if you can check them out without spending money, that would be great, all i have around here is radio shack and they dont seem to have it ( gona check some installers as well):
http://www.molex.com/cgi-bin/bv/molex/jsp/products/compare.jsp?Itemlist=77569,77570,77597,77598&Fam=p cbheadpn&FT_118=55928&FT_101=108&selorder=215,5592 8&btnSearch.y=9&btnSearch.x=25&channel=Products&La ng=en-US&FT_479=0&FT_41394=41394&FT_215=215&BV_SessionID =@@@@1561311171.1159547269@@@@&BV_EngineID=cccfadd imefdfhhcflgcehedffgdfmk.0
and
http://www.molex.com/cgi-bin/bv/molex/jsp/family/intro.jsp?BV_SessionID=@@@@0031994628.1159549146@@ @@&BV_EngineID=ccccaddimefdfglcflgcehedffgdfmk.0&s uperFamOID=-8811&pageTitle=Introduction&channel=Products&famil yOID=-16301&chanName=family&frellink=Introduction
maybe you should go over to invisions office, cracka few heads and make them tell you how to do it!
im also doubting that the aux would work through the box, but wanted to make sure, cauze it would be easier than any other way. If it doesnt work, taping into the wires like you said would be the best way to go.
marin