I was going to "double check" ya on the two fuse box locations but after I read the post a couple of times I thought "well, he did say he checked them" and that was when I went to the book to look through it. I would check the "LR Park" fuse under the hood.
No problem on posting the pics, glad to be of service
Here is a link about the relay checking.
http://www.2carpros.com/how_to/how_d...ck_a_relay.htm
Good luck and let us know what ya find.
Ed