Understood and agree. Among friends, one does not have to explain every word and action nor worry about misunderstanding or hurt feeling all the time.
In the last Majed troll war, 2 ladies were upset about what they read and thought that was racism, which I disagreed because I was a combatant in that war. Personally I regreted their departure, miss them and wish they would stay, but both have not shown up for weeks PRIOR to that war. I had self-reflection and wish we had a chance to openly discuss the case, but that was not to be and it didn't work that way. I hope they will come back one day when they have the time, but that cannot be done by getting all emotional nor by making a major case out of it. That was truly regrettable, they were major attractions of the forum.
