SUT mods

[flyin6]

I just bought my 07 SUT in late June. Had to leave to go back to work (I work overseas) Will be back in September.
I always plan out my mods in advance then start to focus in on actually getting it done.
Here's what I plan so far:
Bumpers:
Tuff country front and rear
factory brush guard which I already have
Winch:
T-Max 9K (already have it)
Suspension:
Hmmm... either go with the Cognito upp arms with extended shocks and the torsion keys, turned up to 3" and a coil spring spacer and extended bilstiens rear
or
Rancho 4" or cognito or other 6" lift
Stock wheels
Toyos open country or Pro Comp extreme AT's 35" or 37"
Engine:
Dyna tec long tubes w/ the h-pipe
4" cat back
Magna Charger supercharger
Lights:
Hella or similiar roof and bumper
Home made roof rack
Professional driving instruction at the factory (I think this is already scheduled)
I'm sure many have travelled this road. I am looking for suggestions or thoughts about where to start? Or if any of these ideas are not a good idea?
My truck will be bling negative, all blacked out and subtle (if that is possible)